For the best comfort, your nightstand should sit level with the top of your...
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For the best comfort, your nightstand should sit level with the top of your mattress or just 5-10 cm below it. Reaching for a glass of water shouldn't feel like a workout. Most standard UK beds pair perfectly with tables between 55-70 cm high